Janette
Brown, MA, LMFT (info-link)
600 1st Ave. N.E. Seattle, WA. 98104 (206) 524-3645
COUNSELING / PSYCHOTHERAPY
Relationship
concerns are opportunities for intimacy and connection, whether to another
person, or to our own self.
How
you relate to self, partner and family can determine how satisfying life feels.
Certainly counseling sessions are a place where Óbe the change you want to seeÓ
is the challenge of the moment.
You
are likely realizing strained times give a chance for honesty and an opportunity
for responding differently. There is no familiarity without finding where it is
we differ with our own old views or with a friend or loved one; and you are
right to think that avoidance, or finding Òways around the problemÓ will lead
to indirectness and lots of room for misunderstandings.
Individual,
or family and couples sessions (somewhat more intimidating initially than
individual sessions) are all safe places to put relational issues into
perspective and notice your own patterns that carry over from personal time into
friend and work relationships. If self-knowledge is power for change, then psychotherapy
and personal counseling is one place we can find it.
Taking good care of self and relationships
Some resources
that can help include:
o
things that have inspired
us
o
persons who have.
o
places where we made
important connections
o
stories written by people
who know death or change*
Suggested
authors:
John C Lily http://www.elliottbaybook.com/search/apachesolr_search/Center+of+the+Cyclone
Clark E Moustakas http//www.amazon.com/Loneliness-Love-Clark-E-Moustakas/dp/0135403863
classic
The author of the best on the topic of death writes
here about living life fully:
Elizabeth Kubler-Ross http://www.amazon.com/Wheel-Life-Memoir-Living-Dying/dp/0684846314/ref=sr_1_5?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1274927952&sr=1-5